Teaching students to cooperate and correcting unacceptable behaviour
It’s easy to lose track of personal and social skills when faced with Fisher Family Trust targets, IEP targets, predicted grades and the other hurdles that we have to try and get students to jump.
I work in a special school. All of our students have very different needs, some can’t read or write, some are autistic, some have other disorders but most have problems with personal and social skills. As teachers we have a duty to improve the social skills of our students, as well as working on the academic skills. This poses a problem for teachers in all settings, though smaller group sizes and higher staffing ratios mean that special schools are able to devote more time to developing these skills.
Last week I took my tutor group to Matlock Bath for the day. It was pleasing to see them getting along as a group (although they don’t always!). Not only are they better at cooperating with each other now than 30 months ago but they look out for each other around the school (well sometimes!). It wasn’t an easy journey, nor are they where I would like them to be. To get here I’ve followed my students around school being sworn at, spent hours on the phone to parents, and listened in detail to the complaints of other staff & students about my boys.
What tips would I give to others in the same position?
- Be consistent
- Don’t threaten without being prepared to follow through
- Model good behaviour and spell out what you expect to see
- Praise and reward good behaviour and cooperation
- Plan opportunities for students to work together into your lessons (and be prepared for the times they don’t cooperate!)
- Plan lessons in detail and include a range of activities
- Give students chance to take on responsibility
- Keep the lines of communication with parents open and work together
- Don’t expect too much – remember progress will be in small steps
- Don’t get stressed – and don’t take bad behaviour personally. It will be a learned response and chances are other teachers will be having the same problem
- communicate with other teachers and find out what works and what doesn’t for your students
- stay calm. Save shouting for special occasions. Don’t get drawn into arguments.
- take ownership of any sanctions you impose and similarly any rewards.
- use teaching assistants and other adults effectively (you need to do this to get a good Ofsted lesson observation grade!)
- above all treat your students with respect. Take an interest in them – a relationship built on mutual respect and understanding is one of the most powerful tools you can have.
I hope this list is useful to some of my readers. Feel free to add comments with suggestions of your own, or to ask any questions.

Some time ago I set up a science blog to use with my students. We decided just to post up examples of good work and photographs from experiments (as a school wary of the internet we wouldn’t be including any media with students faces).

